It's important to know what you're working with down there, so grab a mirror, spread 'em, and check out the glans of the clitoris and the hood, says Amy Levine, sex coach and founder of Ignite Your Pleasure. This is helpful not just to explore different sensations and various types of touch with your sight as a guide, but because what you see affects how you get off. Turns out, size and location matter. Studies have shown that the bigger and closer to the vagina the clitoris is, the easier it is to orgasm.
9 Clitoral Stimulation Techniques For Intense Orgasms
13 Expert Tips For Clitoral Stimulation - How to Give Her a Clitoral Orgasm
And for these women, the clit is where you want to focus your energy when you want to go for an orgasm. There are two ways to stimulate the clitoris: directly and indirectly. And there are three different tools you can use: your fingers, your tongue and a vibrator. Remember that you should always turn your girl on before you touch her clitoris. You can stimulate the clit indirectly by touching the clitoral hood with your fingers, your tongue or a vibrator.
How to Stimulate the Clitoris
The clitoris actually stretches backwards into her body and branches into a wishbone shape that wraps around the front and sides of her vagina. Lucky for you, that means there are lots of ways to stimulate the most sensitive part of her body. But the area just above her glans is an even hotter spot for many women. The shaft of her clitoris lies so close beneath the skin there that you can actually feel it: It feels like a small cord. Once you find it, use your index and middle finger to rub circles or back-and-forth motions, or use your tongue.
After all, getting busy with your own bod can help you chuck unwanted inhibitions. Throw out any taboos or guilt surrounding masturbation right now. Pleasuring yourself has health benefits that go beyond the body — it can help untangle shame that affects confidence with yourself, partnered sex, or in a relationship.